November 2015

What are your relationship rules? Blog post by irenecarr.com - "People tend to criticize their spouse most loudly in the area where they themselves have the deepest emotional need." Gary Chapman

Like it or not, all of our relationships have rules.  It is not that our rules are the problem.  Rather our unawareness of our rules can create havoc.  If love has to be delivered in a particular package for us to be able to receive it, then we have a rule. If you are not… Read More

It is neither easy, nor pretty, to look at the ways we hurt others. Yet, it is essential if we want something different in our next relationship. IreneCarr.com

It has been over a year since the divorce.  My friends are no longer quietly whispering to me to get back into the dating scene. The thing is a made a deep heartfelt commitment to myself. I committed to myself not to enter into an intimate relationship again until I healed the places inside of… Read More

Our emotions are like clothes. We wear them, but they are not truly who we are. The clothes, or emotions, do need to be worn and their textures thoroughly felt. IreneCarr.com

Our emotions are like clothes. We wear them, but they are not truly who we are. The clothes, or emotions, do need to be worn and their textures thoroughly felt. Our emotions teach us lessons. Check out what the poet Rumi has to say about this: The Guest House This being human is a guest… Read More

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