The life you are yearning to live seems distant, like another universe or two away. However, the truth is it is only a short distance from you. Yet, this feeling is very understandable for it is said missing your unique and authentic expression in the world by an inch is the same as, if not worse, than missing it by a mile!
Although we’d love for someone to tell us to just follow these steps, there won’t be any pain, and you will arrive exactly where you want to go, it simply is not reality. Why? That is the same as taking a pill for the ill. Ultimately, this human life is one of experimentation to find out what agrees with our constitution and what does not. In order to know that we combine some knowledge with experimentation, and then we act, wait and see what arises… delicious wonder!