Perhaps we’ve got this conflict or disagreement thing all wrong. Perhaps it is a way to deepen relationship, and it is offering us a gift instead of a threat that something is going to be lost or taken away. Perhaps it offers the opportunity of understanding another and ourselves much more deeply.
In order to receive the gift of conflict, curiosity must be cultivated, as well as a desire to understand, and change of our habitual ways of reacting. If we are honest with ourselves, we attempt to blame and change others or circumstances to avoid changing ourselves.
How is it possible to see with new eyes, to hear with new ears, and to respond from love? Blessings on your journey!